Monday, April 4, 2016

TRANSFORMING LOVE (PEOPLE ARE NOT YOUR PUPPETS)



You may manipulate people to do anything you want and you may find pride in yourself for having gained that kind of control. Some people like using others or their love ones as puppets to satisfy some deep-seated need to control everything and everybody.

 The thing about a people-puppet is that you may manipulate them do what you want, maybe as long as you want, but you will never really control their wills.  Once people discover they have a will, your manipulation is over.

 Manipulation gives you the illusion of getting what you want, while in fact, the more you practice it, the less you get. Ask those you are manipulating. A person’s will, by natural design, is ultimately moved and motivated by a God-given gift of choice and  not by manipulation. 

So, if manipulation is what you use to get what you want from others, you better check to see if what you want is really what you actually have. People are not puppets.

Dr Pensacola Helene Jefferson

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