EPILOGUE
“GREATER
LOVE HATH NO MAN THAN THIS,
THAT A MAN
LAY DOWN HIS LIFE…” (JOHN 15:13)
NO GREATER LOVE |
Hopefully you
learned in these excerpts from TRANSFORMING LOVE that God
chooses you, draws you, loves you, changes your identity, speaks to you, becomes
Lord and makes you holy.
The components
of the relationship with God may seem unusual, but it is actually the
healthiest relationship you can have. The YADA relationship will truly enhance
your overall health and well-being.
When someone loves you and knows
you so well you feel extraordinarily safe: IT FEELS GOOD. It feels good for
someone to care so deeply for you consistently.
I am talking about the kind of attentive
care that will stop you from being desperate for dysfunctional love. God re-conditions
you to a true and holy love by purposefully teaching you the right way to both
give and receive love.
The loving relationship with God will improve ALL your
other relationships. God calls you to know him (YADA), so you can know his love for
you and you can experience his kind love for him and for others.
In one of my quiet moments God said
to me, I called YOU to “know” me. Who
did I discover God to be? Love. God is Love. I came to know
that God’s kind of love must be experienced and comprehended from a HOLY perspective
and not just a human one. I was a student with a deficit in the area of true love, but God gives me so
many chances to learn about his ways. I am so thankful.
God is extravagant with his chances
towards those He loves. How many times have I messed up? How many chances did I receive to get my
mess-ups right? His love outlasts all our chances to get it right with Him. My
wrongs, when I asked for forgiveness, caused God to shower me with a tsunami of
Love.
How could I not return that love
to God and onto others? To whom much is forgiven there is much love (Luke
7:36-48).
How many offenses are too many for
God? How many chances does he give before His Grace is exhausted? I don’t know. But I learned, where my sin
increased, God’s Grace increased even more. Why does God give a man or woman so
many chances? What is His motive for doing that? LOVE.
That’s God’s nature. He can’t go
against who He is. He is Love. I bet Heaven’s atmosphere is the breath of Love.
It is probably as normal as breathing. I am ever thankful God’s ways are not
our ways and his thoughts are not our thoughts.
But his ways are higher than our
ways. People can exhaust the chances they have with each other, but there is
always another chance with God as long as you are on this earth.
God called me for purpose and said,
“You are MY Heart, Pensacola and the
mouthpiece for My Heart.” God directs and helps us walk in our purpose when
we trust him.
I asked to know God and God’s heart.
He showed me his ways through his
“oneness” relationship with me and my personal relationships with others.
I learned God’s holy ways goes
against the flesh and human nature. Who God is and the way God does things are
unnatural to man and mankind often judge God’s holy ways against their own ways
of doing things.
To mankind, it is often distasteful
(objectionable) to continue to love someone who seems to have exhausted his or
her chances or committed certain atrocities against another human being, but
LOVE covers a multitude of sins (wrongs).
God’s understanding of mankind’s
sinful plight is like deep waters. Man’s love will drown where God’s love prevails.
God in his infinite ability to love can sympathize with mankind’s dilemma with
sin, yet has never sinned.
Again, God alone can sympathize
with mankind’s plight with sin and therefore has the fortitude to love an
individual through their deepest issues and concerns.
That kind of love is a mighty
weapon against the dark foes of the soul. It has the power to continue to reach
out, through countless hours, days, weeks, and years, to those who have fallen
into the gutters and trenches of life to give them a victorious finale.
There is no greater love than the
love of God.
God loves you. If you are his child,
you are “…in the beloved..” and God
is pleased with you. As God’s child, through faith in Christ, there is nothing
you can ever do to change the fact that he loves about you.
God designed a way through Jesus to
have a relationship with you and you are pleasing in God’s sight. God wants you
to experience the depth of his love for you.
How does that happen? You learn God’s
loving ways through revelation knowledge of the way God loves you. You learn
God’s loving ways through revelation knowledge and real-life experiences of
loving others God’s way. There is no better way to know someone except by
walking in their footsteps.
God taught me through personal
experience that love covers over a lot of offenses. Love is fully forgiving
and doesn’t keep a record of another person’s wrongs towards you. Love is
enduring.
Love
suffers long, because it desires to give the other person a chance to get it right with them.
Love is faithful. Love is loyal. Love makes a sacrifice and therefore will
always be costly.
Love continues, even if it does not receive
anything in return. Love does not come with a wage attachment, where you have
to somehow earn it. Love does not come with a partiality tag, where you somehow
have to be worthy of it. Love does not come with a merit tag, where somehow you
have to be deserving of it.
Love is free towards the recipient
of it and will not demand anything in return. Love won’t change, even if the
recipient changes, walks away, rejects it, follows after another, is unfaithful, offends, or totally forgets about it. That what God taught me about love. Why does God love like that?
Divine, holy, agape love is
operating in your heart when you love in this manner. When God’s love is poured
out in your heart you learn it’s a tenacious love!
God called me to know His ways and
he called you to know his ways too. Love is God’s way. I am one of the mouthpieces
for God’s way.
When loving God’s way you will also
find that love is not insecure and will not demand anything from the recipient.
Love does not have low self-esteem and will not demand validation from its
recipient. Love is concerned with its own expression and not the expression of
the recipient. Love’s only agenda is love.
Any resistance to walking in God’s holy
love is the flesh and the influences of the old nature’s limited way of doing
or thinking about love. God’s love has been poured out in our hearts to give us
an opportunity to truly give and receive TRUE love.
Any resistance to walking in God’s
kind of love, it a clear example of how our ways are not like his ways. His HOLY
ways are distasteful to us and unnatural to the carnal nature. We find it
distasteful to forgive some of the offenses others have placed on us.
God’s Love covers a multitude of
sin.
My life’s journey thus far have
been about walking in God’s love, receiving it God’s love, and being trained in
God’s kind of love. It has been a costly endeavor, but well worth the journey.
God’s love is liberating and exquisitely transforming.
Loving others while applying God’s
truth helps you get a vision of how God extends forgiveness, grace, and mercy
to you personally.
For instance, someone had done
something bad to me and God said don’t treat them according to their wrongs
toward you. I said “What….?” However, that’s grace. Another time, someone had
done something bad to me and I was justified to punish them with my attitude,
but God said don’t do it. Again, I said “what?” Now that’s mercy and mercy
triumphs over judgement (James 2:13). A third time someone had committed some
really heartbreaking things against me and it hurt deeply, but God said to
forgive them.
None of these things were easy to
do, but I trusted God to work in my heart so I would want to do them and carry
it out. And God did.
Every time I love as God directs it
changes me in two ways: I able to see how God loves me and how the application
of his love works on others. Knowing God’s personal love for you and
experiencing his personal love through you is truly transforming.
When you allow God to love through
you, it sometimes teaches you what it costs Jesus to love you. When you
personally experience challenges when loving others and forgiveness is the only
way to continue the relationship you can also learn what it cost Jesus to love
you.
Exercising or extending grace,
mercy, and forgiveness in your personal relationships help you appreciate grace,
mercy and forgiveness in your relationship with God. True love is costly. When
you truly know the price God paid through Jesus, to love you, you will finally
surrender safely into his loving care.
All that I may have lost and gained
in this life can never be compared to the opportunity; I have, to fully enjoy
the YADA relationship with God. May I, and hopefully you too, be lavished,
soaked, covered, and forever transformed by God’s endless love.
Godspeed
Dr. Pensacola H. Jefferson
THE BOOK
"TRANSFORMING LOVE"